Your vows, in your words.

Written from your own stories. One partner, $49, within 1 day.

Write my vows
Before and after

Not “you are my best friend.” The bus stop.

Most vows start from a list of lines everyone has heard. Yours start from the eight things you tell us.

Before: the notes

“met at a bus stop, rain, one umbrella. she waited for me to finish my degree. the dog. she always says ‘we’ll figure it out’. promise to keep showing up. promise about the dishes lol”

After: written from those notes

“Riley, you shared an umbrella with a stranger in the rain, and then you shared six years, two flats and one very loud dog with him. You waited while I finished what I had started, and every time it got hard you said the four words I now believe more than any others: we’ll figure it out. So here is what I promise. I will keep showing up, on the good days and the long ones. I will do the dishes, most of the time. And when it gets hard, I will say it first: we’ll figure it out.”

Sample: Sam and Riley are a made-up couple. Every real vow comes only from what you tell us.

How it works

Three steps. One day.

Answer 8 questions

How you met, the moment you knew, what they do for you, what you promise, the in-jokes. Rough is fine.

We write your vows

150 to 300 words, in your voice, in the tone you chose, with a large-type reading card.

Read them aloud once

Change anything. One free round of changes. Your partner never sees them unless you show them.

$49

  • One partner's vows, 150 to 300 words (1 to 2 minutes aloud)
  • Written only from your eight answers, in your words
  • A large-type reading card, with breath marks, as a PDF
  • Within 1 day. One free round of changes. Late means your money back.
Write my vows

Also £39 incl. VAT · A$75 · C$65 · each partner orders separately

Free sample

Read a whole set of vows first.

Sam's full vows to Riley, with the notes they came from and the reading card, so you can see exactly what you get.

Read the sample vows Reading card PDF

Reading card · slow · look up at “we’ll figure it out”Riley, you shared an umbrella with a stranger in the rain, //
and then you shared six years, two flats and one very loud dog with him. //

You waited while I finished what I had started, //
and every time it got hard you said the four words I now believe more than any others: //
we’ll figure it out.
Order

Tell us about them.

Eight questions, ten minutes, your own words. You get an order code at the end, then pay by card at the checkout and the day starts.

Questions

Will they sound like me?

That is the whole job. Every line comes from the stories and promises you give us, in the words you use. We do not add anything you did not tell us, and you change anything before the day.

Does my partner find out?

Not from us. Each partner orders separately and we keep the two apart, even if you both order. The sample on this page is for a made-up couple.

How long should vows be?

One to two minutes aloud, 150 to 300 words. Agree the length and tone with your partner first; we write to the length you pick.

Already sent the form? Pay at the checkout: $49 · £39 · A$75 · C$65, then put your code in the box.

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